It’s so great having a dad in your life who’s a cliche. There are so many more Father’s Day craft ideas out there when Dad loves fishing or golfing as opposed to say, handcuff collecting.
Love might even be an understatement when it comes to my husband‘s relationship with fly fishing. So when it came to Father’s Day, I knew the only thing that would make him happy would be a day on the water. That, and an adorable handmade, heart-made gift from the two greatest little people in our lives:
We celebrated Jed’s birthday at our house just a little over a month ago and I’m finally getting around to sharing all of my crafty Pinteresting party planning. (Better late than never, right?)
We let him choose the theme. It took him about half a second to decide on bugs. For anyone planning a boys’ birthday party, here’s a little insect inspiration.
Last year, I made the mistake of e-vites. Great in theory and for the budget, but turned out a few of the moms from Jed’s class never check their email and totally missed out. So this year, we hand-delivered straight to the cubbies — unless they never pick their kids up from school, I figured this was failsafe. Found these on Etsy from Olive & Star Paper Designs. They were wonderful to work with and did a super quick turnaround:
With a 3-5pm party time, I didn’t have to worry about a full-on meal and instead went with filling, healthy (bug) bites. We went all out with bug-themed snacks and an a-MAZE-ing cake from DOUGH, my favorite client and bakery in Asheville.
If I could go back in time and teach myself balloon art rather than babysit, I would. In Asheville, a super smart kid who goes by Mr. Twister, has it made. He’s adorable, great with the kids and super talented. He made bug balloons for all of our guests including this dragonfly for me:) He even learned two new balloon bugs just for Jed’s party.
We also had a bug scavenger hunt. I bought mini-magnifying glasses and a bag o’ bugs online from Amazon and hid 144 bugs all over the house. I gave extra “points” for anyone who found and got rid of any real bugs;)
I didn’t do too much in the way of decorating. I used some burlap fabric I had leftover from a Baby Q that I hosted last year, which I used for the table cover and made this very nifty Very Hungry Caterpillar out of balloons. I figured with other bug balloons bouncing about and bugs scattered all over the house, that was enough.
And being close to Halloween, I was able to take advantage of a bunch of spider stuff out there, like for napkins and plates and our spider pinata. The pinata was probably overkill — had plenty to fill the two hours without it– but I thought I was self-editing when I held back on the two bug crafts I had planned. No one can say there wasn’t enough to do! In addition to the pinata candy (organic and low on sugar from this dentist’s daughter) and scavenger hunt bugs, kids brought home favor bags with Spiderman bubbles, glow-in-the-dark bug stickers and bug tattoos.
With disposable yet recyclable plates and a very helpful mother-in-law, clean-up was a breeze!
And, most importantly, everyone including parents seems to have a good time.
I’m obsessed with the Cuppow. It’s one of those “why didn’t I think of that?” inventions that’s so clever, I never would’ve actually thought of it.
It basically turns your mason jar into an adult sippy cup. When you replace the mason jar lid with the Cuppow, you only keep the rim of the lid, leaving you with a metal circle. I hated the idea of discarding it, so I kept it around until I finally found its purpose in my kitchen as a spoon rest.
I also found these other ways to use your Cuppow castaways via Pinterest. Do you have any mason jar lid uses to add?
Last weekend, Dave and I threw a Baby Q for our friends, Britt and Nate. They are the anti-baby shower type of people, but that doesn’t mean they don’t want to celebrate their little one like everyone else (and reap all of the benefits that a shower implies). I can’t say that I blame them. I was never for the cheesy games and frilly finger foods either. Since a lot of their friends are women and men, a couple’s shower made sense. And since we know them so well, an evening of barbeque, backyard games and craft beer made even more sense. Needless to say, Mama sat out on the beer sippin’ this time:)
Baby Q Invitations
I’m usually a fan of Evites, but when it comes to showers, I think paper is in order. I was amazed to find so many Baby Q designs on Etsy. It didn’t take me long though to decide on this one from PuzzlePrints:
They responded quickly and offered great customer service. If you haven’t had a broken printer on your to-do list for two years, you could print these out yourself from the final PDF or jpeg. I had it done at a UPS store on cardstock at a very reasonable price and bought invitation-sized envelopes from Staples. I can’t tell you how many compliments I got on these!
Our gracious guests of honor actually offered up their home for the party. It worked out well, with their flat lawn for table and games, a nice partially covered deck, and no hauling loot post-party back to their place. Win, win!
The Baby Shower Menu
This was not your typical baby shower food. We also had to keep in mind that this would be outside in August, so we didn’t want anything too hot n’ heavy. And being in the South, there was a definite Southern, local flare to our fare:
Cheese Spread Duo: Pimento Cheese (my mom’s famous recipe) and Three Graces Dairy goat cheese from right down the road in Marshall, NC, served with an assortment of crackers.
I recruited help from a friend to put together a garden salad. She created her own crunchy topping and a homemade dressing.
The dessert table: mini cupcakes in vanilla and chocolate, Guinness brownies a la grandma-to-be, and a bouquet spray of fruit twists in various colors and flavors from Fresh Market. I love their candy section!
We busted out the root ball, cornhole, and Kan Jam (although by the end of the evening, boys big and small were using the “Kans” to just roll down the hill)
And, okay, it is a baby shower, so I had to do one crafty baby showerish thing. I made my first memory board using a mix of a few tutorials I found online, and I learned a couple of things:
Nothing makes me feel better than hearing how easy it was for a group of seventh graders to do something in ten minutes that took me two trips to the fabric store.
One of the women said she’d tried this with both a regular stapler and staple gun. She said a regular stapler worked much better. I beg to differ.
We had a buffet inside with a separate dessert table.
Appetizers and drinks served on the deck.
Tables and backyard games on the lawn. (Guests were prompted to bring their own lawn chairs.)
I used burlap fabric for table covers and small mixed bouquets from the farmers market (bought that morning) in everyone’s favorite party accessory, mason jars.
We bought three types of barbeque sauce by the quart from Asheville’s famous 12 Bones Smokehouse. We redistributed them into mason jelly jars and gave them cutesy baby names: Western Carolina Girl (tomato), Sugar ‘n’ Spice (blueberry chipotle) and Temper Tantrum (spicy mustard).
Kids got bubbles, but they got their favors when they arrived:)
Guests arrived at 5-ish.
Drinks and apps, 5-6:30pm.
Open presents at 7pm. (We opened their new pack n’ play to use as the gift “table”. Kept it inside, then it rolled out easily onto the deck when it was time.)
Folks with kids (with bedtimes) could see their gifts opened and still be home at a reasonable hour. Some stayed a little later. When I left at 9:15, the Mexican Lager was kicked, but the Pale Ale was still flowin’. A good time was had by all.
A special thanks to our elves Jennie and Michael. Lesson learned: even when there aren’t a lot of games planned, there’s A LOT to do between sending out invitations and making the food. The devil is indeed in the details!
This is not to be confused with the mother who wants for nothing.
I’m talking about the mom who feels guilty getting gifts from her daughter. She only feels comfortable on the giving end of the relationship. She can’t enjoy anything extravagant (read: more than a card) because all she can think of is how much money you’ve spent… even if it’s just $15 for a magazine subscription, forget a bouquet of flowers. This is my mom. And if it’s your mom, and you still want to show her your appreciation beyond Hallmark, try these guilt-free twists on traditional Mother’s Day gifts.
Instead of flowers, tryMINT.
If you don’t have some growing in your own yard, ask a gardening gal pal to clip some out of her yard to share with you… trust me, she’s got plenty of this quick-growing herb. Get crafty and pot it in something like a coffee mug (sneaky double gift) or my favorite, a mason jar. Finish off with a ribbon or piece of twine tied in around it in a bow! Unlike a bouquet of flowers, mom can use the mint for cooking, in her tea or to help her headaches. Perfect on a window sill in the kitchen or planted along the sidewalk.
Instead of chocolates, make your ownCHOCOLATE-COVERED PRETZELS.
We found this amazing sugar scrub recipe via Dawn at Indigo + Canary’s Reader Pinterest Board (Thanks, Dawn!). Created by Bailey at Let Birds Fly, it’s quite simple to concoct. While all the ingredients might not be in your cupboard, once you gather them, you’ll be able to whip up this gift for birthdays and holidays in a snap. The perfect healthy indulgence, all natural, and SO pretty!
1/4 cup refined safflower oil (or other mild flavored oil, NOT olive oil)
20-35 drops of essential oil of choice OR a few drops of extract of choice
a few drops of non-toxic food coloring
Mix dry ingredients, then add coconut and safflower oil. Add in essential oil (or extract), and mix well. Scrub should be wet and thick. Add more safflower oil by the teaspoon if needed. Add food coloring, mix well.
Makes a little over 2 cups.
– Do NOT used unrefined coconut oil. The aroma is too strong and will not go well with the scent you choose, unless you choose coconut, of course!
– Do NOT use olive oil. The flavor and aroma are too strong and will not go well with the scent you choose.
– Try not to use vegetable oil or canola oil. This is a healthy scrub, meant to add good oils to your skin. If you cannot find safflower oil, try grape seed oil or flaxseed oil.
– You might need even more essential oil than recipe calls for. I used about 35 drops (big drops), but I wanted the scrub’s aroma to be very strong.
What scents could you add?
Try these essential oils: almond, juniper, cinnamon, ginger, guava, peppermint, spearmint, wintergreen, lavender, rose, orange, lemon, lime, grapefruit, or tangerine.
Or try these extracts: vanilla, pineapple, strawberry, coconut, banana, cherry, lemon, lime, orange, almond, mint, or root beer (hehe)!
LL NOTE: I do not have all the links in Bailey’s recipe that she has on her blog. To learn more about essential oils, etc, go to the full post on her website.
If it weren’t for Pinterest, I’d never remember the wonderful ideas I find all over the Internet — like this dynamic yet simple hanging how-to I found from MarthaStewart.com:
Measuring accurately to keep that inch and a half of negative space between the top and bottom row of pictures drove me to the brink of insanity… and turned my wall into baby Swiss. Much like a new nurse with her first patient trying to find that pesky vein. Lots of trial and error (despite my measuring tape and level). Lots of holes.
I finally gave up and eyeballed the last three frames. I’m pretty proud of how it turned out:
I still have plenty of room to build out on top and underneath, but the difficult part is done — I’ve established the line. My next wall project awaits me in my Pinterest account, also via MarthaStewart.com:
After a few frustrating days of tutorials gone wrong and misleading “build your own banner” sites, I decided to take blog design matters out of my own hands. I could not afford a full-blown package , and decided I could get the best bang for my buck by hiring someone to resdesign my banner and a coordinating grab button a la carte. Choosing a couple of items a la carte rather than an entire package is a great way to update your look without emptying your bank account.
I found Tiffany (TKC Designs) through the Blog Designer Network. I actually did not look close enough and chose her off the Blogger designer list, but she was willing to work with me anyhow and give WordPress a go. Since it was just a banner and she only needed to work off my specs, it wasn’t too big a deal.
Tiffany intrigued me for two reasons:
1. As a designer, her site is her sales pitch. It was clean, feminine, attractive, not too busy. I could tell she knew how to edit and not overdo things. I could tell she had talent.
2. When I read about her, I found that she was also the mother of a two-year-old living in the South who worked from home when she could squeeze it in, so I liked that we had that connection:) I believe in hiring a person, not just a service.
I am very picky about design. I did not know exactly what I wanted, but I knew what I didn’t want and had a vague idea of what I wanted. She was so sweet and wonderful to work with: responsive, efficient, flexible and a very positive attitude. I tried to be as detailed as I could in filling out her questionnaire, because I know from experience in the industry, the worst thing you can do for a graphic designer is be vague, with directions like “be creative”. I was so impressed when she nailed it on the first try! So very impressed that we dabbled with a second option just to be sure. But it was love at first sight. Like that rare time you find the dress at the first store you go to, the first one you try on… you still have to shop around a little just to absolutely certain.
And I could not believe the value. The feminist in me wants to shake her shoulders and insist, “Don’t you know you’re worth more than this?” But the wallet in my bag says, “Keep your mouth shut!”
Seriously, could not be happier with my new look. Thanks, Tiffany!
She also created my grab button! I’m still working out the coding kinks to put it in my sidebar, but feel free to grab it and link back if you want to show your Lindsey Living love:)
I managed to make my “bad mommy” mistake before lunch today… I didn’t send Jed to school with valentines. It’s not that it didn’t cross my mind, but he’s two, and they don’t have desks, so I couldn’t quite envision the whole exchange with the little makeshift mailboxes set up for everyone. I just didn’t think they’d get it. Of course that doesn’t stop us from shoving every other holiday and adult rationale down their throats. So I sent him off to school heartless, and he came back with these:
I have to highlight my favorite one, a homemade valentine, Star Wars-style:
The “lightsaber” is a glow bracelet. How clever is that? Kudos to Mack’s mom!
Please pardon the mess while my blog undergoes a few cosmetic changes. I’m attempting a DIY mini-makeover (add a widget here, new font there), which will mean the blog might appear different from visit to visit before I settle on a final look. I will continue posting during the process. Thanks for your patience and stay tuned for the big reveal!
With Jed out of school this week and an influx of freelance work (yay!) it’s been tougher for me to make time to post. So, again, I bring you a re-post from my Blogs of Yore. I wrote this one about three years ago when I was planning a baby shower for my other most favorite Emily.
Throwing a shower for a friend? Or perhaps someone near and dear is throwing one for you? You have an idea of what you want, but don’t want to step on toes. (After all, she’s nice enough to throw the shower, right?) How about oh-so-subtly sharing this post with your friends on Facebook with a “Read this! So clever!” note. She’ll take the hint:)
My mom and I are throwing a baby shower for a close, second-sister friend (you know, the friend who you bought that BFF broken heart necklace with at the mall in middle school). It’s on Saturday and I’m determined to make it a shower that I would actually enjoy attending. Next to having your fat circled with a magic marker as a sorority “new member”, I can’t imagine anything more painful than your friends using measuring tape to guess how large you are around the middle. No games of any kind, thank you very much.
I was excited about putting together a baby shower playlist for background music and burning it to CDs as favors, until I had this conversation with the shower honoree while home for Thanksgiving.
Me: Don’t worry, Friend. We aren’t doing any tacky shower stuff, I promise.
Friend: Oh good. Because for your sister’s shower, they made me make this CD of songs with the word “baby” in it. I didn’t want to, but they made me, and it was so tacky. And then they didn’t even use it… thank God.
Ummm. Uhhhh. Okay then.
At first I was going to completely back off, but then I remembered that I’m the hostess, and who am I to deprive our guests of my superior mix-tape making skills? I stayed up late into the night on iTunes to put this “Mother of All Baby Shower Playlists” together for the cool, urban, hipster mom-to-be:
“Mother and Child Reunion” – Paul Simon
“Stay Up Late” – Talking Heads
“Baby Please Don’t Go” – Van Morrison
“Baby” – Rufus Wainwright
“Baby’s Got Sauce” – G. Love & Special Sauce
“I Can’t Quite You Baby” – Led Zeppelin
“Baby” – Iggy Pop
“Jack” – Widespread Panic (she’s naming her son Jack)
“Cry Baby Cry” – The Beatles
“Baby Boomerang” – The Shins
“Kooks” – David Bowie
“Little Baby” – The Rolling Stones
“Baby Hold On” – Leftover Salmon
“Put A Straw Under Baby” – Brian Eno
“My Baby” – Janis Joplin
“Baby” – Dave Matthews
It was actually easier to find beautiful songs about abortion than birth, but even I realize that “Belly Button Window” by Jimi Hendrix and Bend Folds’ “Brick” would be in poor taste. My playlist might not resonate with the baby boomer partygoers, but my too-cool-for-baby-songs friend will appreciate it.
Then there was the issue of party favors. I don’t have time to burn 25 copies of this CD and create cute labels. And everything online needed to be ordered 4-6 weeks ago. When I Googled “last-minute baby shower favors,” the only articles that popped up said things like “don’t leavethe baby shower favors until the last minute.” Um, yeah, thanks. I also didn’t want to spend a fortune on something that’s going to get thrown away… and they all get thrown away.
After days of online obsessing, I took the philanthropic route. My first instinct was to find a baby-related charity, but as I researched, The Louisville Zoo continued to pop up as one of the highest rated non-profits. The shower’s in Louisville, KY, where we grew up, so after investigating further on the zoo’s website, I decided to adopt Baby Elephant Scotty in the mom-to-be’s name in lieu of favors. My friend will get an adoption certificate, her name on the website, and a picture/info card of Scotty. I ask you, how cute is that?
What are your tips for planning a shower that doesn’t suck?